Howard,
I have the same kit as you, including the Lodestar. In order for the Lodestar to come "close" to focus, you need to raise the prism stalk all the way up (away from the light path), and not use any of the Atik extensions on the top of the OAG. Even so, the Lodestar is not focused, but it's close enough and good focus for a guide camera isn't essential.
What adapter are you using between the OAG and the Lodestar?
joel